I'm not sure I understand what you mean by this: Jesus changed all that. He brought grace. And woman no longer has to fear birth, and her desire can be for a deeper relationship with Jesus. Man and woman are equal. Different of course but equal. Man has grace. And he is instructed to love his wife, as Christ loves the church.

Women do have to fear childbirth. Mortality rates for women and babies are still extremely high in many parts of the world, regardless of what religion is practiced. Men (and women) still have to work, and Christianity has not really supported the idea of equality between men and women.