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wlotus ([personal profile] wlotus) wrote2009-05-28 08:29 am
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Mopey Little Man

"What I want," sulked The Teen after his mother cut his hair short, "is to get out of that school and get my [mohawk] back." His mother made it clear that his abysmal grades, due entirely to choosing not to do much of his assigned homework, have preempted his going to a barber for regular mohawk maintenance. She will spend the money on herself, instead.

I don't yet know if he will graduate with his eighth grade class next month. He turned in a (very, very late) science report rather than the required project, and his science teacher did not appreciate the lack of content/effort that went into it. I hope they do not pass him, if only to drive home the lesson that one cannot get far in life by not doing what is required. I'd rather see him repeat eighth grade there with this year's seventh graders--a humiliation he hopes to avoid--than get away with defiant laziness. He has the potential to grow into a belligerent man with no respect for authority, if this behavior is allowed to continue. As it is, he sulks home after school every day with A.T.T.I.T.U.D.E. oozing out of every pore of his body just because the world has failed to bow down and allow his continued laziness. My palms itch to go a-slappin' whenever I get near him, so I mostly keep my distance, wait, and see.

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[identity profile] wlotus.livejournal.com 2009-05-28 07:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Once he did, I announced at the top of my voice “YOUR MOMMY IS HERE TO PICK YOU UP. COME GIVE ME A BIG HUG.” Since then, he calls me as soon as he is out of school and if he was to go somewhere with his friends, then he gives me the courtesy of asking.

ROTFLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's a good one!

[identity profile] arkadelos.livejournal.com 2009-05-29 03:16 pm (UTC)(link)
"it is hard to find the things that he truly cares about in order to punish him."

How many hobbies does he have? Maybe you can spend all summer trying to find something that really catches his interest - a special aptitude and/or hobby. To me personally, the fact that he does not have much to care about sounds like he is really apathetic toward life. With this apathy in mind, perhaps he does not see any purpose in starting or completing any of his work. This does NOT excuse his behavior, btw.

I think finding him a hobby or special aptitude would work out well for both you and him. He would have a purpose in his life and would get rid of the apathy. You would have something to reward or punish him with.