On Being An Open Book

Not every book needs to be opened for every person. Libraries are sometimes closed, and when they are open, there are certain volumes you need a special pass in order to access.

On Being Single

If you are not going to settle, you need to be prepared for the real possibility that you may not meet someone suitable for a very long time, if ever. Single people always have to make a choice between settling for whatever comes along just to have someone, or refusing to settle even if it means being single for a very long time. It's a reality many people are uncomfortable thinking about, so they don't prepare themselves for it and they don't help others prepare for it, either.

Staying single usually looks very good once you experience what settling gets you. :-) There ARE worse things than being single when being in a healthy romantic relationship is your desire. Being in an UNHEALTHY relationship is one of those worse things.