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My Boundaries, Let Me Show You Them
May. 16th, 2009 10:44 am"Do not contact me again," when said in October of 2001, does not translate to, "When I have blocked you over the years from my Myspace, Facebook, LiveJournal, and email accounts, feel free to search me out on Twitter at a later date and add me to your feed." Thank goodness for Twitter's "Block" feature.
For an author, he sure has a lot of problems with comprehension. ::rolls eyes::
ETA, 2:23 PM
I unblocked him just long enough to send this message to my entire Twitter feed:
@warriorpoet7749 This is your 1st and last warning. Link to or contact me in any way again, and I am going to the police.
Stalking is not cool, and after I spoke with![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
labyrinthnight I realized that is exactly what he is doing to me. Abuse thrives on secrecy, on the victim not telling others, on the victim thinking they are responsible for keeping that person in check. I call bullshit and throw the curtains wide open to reveal him as the stalker he is. That is also why I have made this post public. I banned his LJ account, warriorpoet7, when he created it back in 2005 just to contact me. (The 1 comment his profile says he posted? Yeah, that was to my LJ.)
labyrinthnight is right: all of that reactive and preemptive banning is too much trouble to go through; the law can handle him. I told him almost 8 years ago not to contact me again, and I have not contacted him since then. That email should have been enough. But since then I have had to ban him from here, from an old email account (which is now deleted), and now from Twitter, on top of preemptively banning him from my other online sites.
This post will serve as a record to myself, for when I have to make good on my promise to go to the authorities.
For an author, he sure has a lot of problems with comprehension. ::rolls eyes::
ETA, 2:23 PM
I unblocked him just long enough to send this message to my entire Twitter feed:
@warriorpoet7749 This is your 1st and last warning. Link to or contact me in any way again, and I am going to the police.
Stalking is not cool, and after I spoke with
labyrinthnight I realized that is exactly what he is doing to me. Abuse thrives on secrecy, on the victim not telling others, on the victim thinking they are responsible for keeping that person in check. I call bullshit and throw the curtains wide open to reveal him as the stalker he is. That is also why I have made this post public. I banned his LJ account, warriorpoet7, when he created it back in 2005 just to contact me. (The 1 comment his profile says he posted? Yeah, that was to my LJ.)labyrinthnight is right: all of that reactive and preemptive banning is too much trouble to go through; the law can handle him. I told him almost 8 years ago not to contact me again, and I have not contacted him since then. That email should have been enough. But since then I have had to ban him from here, from an old email account (which is now deleted), and now from Twitter, on top of preemptively banning him from my other online sites.This post will serve as a record to myself, for when I have to make good on my promise to go to the authorities.
